You Cant Force Change—But You Can Choose To Evolve!
Evolution is a gift we all share together. Individually, but the mindset is the same! “What do I need to do to grow into a better version of myself?” That is the ultimate question we must as ourselves each day because by no means will we ever be perfect! Their will always be room to grow!
Complacency is a trap, it is as though you are locking yourself up in a cage and hindering yourself from experiencing lifes most valuable treasures. When you are on your self improvement quest, you build confidence, motivation, and it brings you joy! This sense of fulfillment will then carry with you throughout other aspects of your life, and youll be able to spread positivity towards others.
Their is no winning and losing in this game of life, just learning experiences. As soon as you learn to accept lifes lessons, and mold them into consistent daily actions you will blossom. We tend to put so much pressure on ourselves to be “perfect” or “the best” meanwhile who or what is the judge of such thing?
You are valued by the way you view yourself! In this time, we are driven away from focusing on the one thing that matters most in your life! That is yourself! It is without any doubt empowering to give service and care to others. We should be giving to each-other! But, the more you give to yourself—the greater impact you will have on others!
As a Coach, Son, and Friend, I can never want someone to change more than they want to change themselves. That is reality of life! You see this all the time in relationships with spouses, parents, children, and friendships. People wanting others to be, choose, or act differently than they do. Unfortunately, you have no control over how another person chooses to live their life. Learning to accept that fact, is crucial if you want to maintain the relationship with the person, while also granting yourself peace of mind.
Everyone sees life from there own point of view and each is created through circumstance and perspective. You see that as perspective shifts, so do you, and so does your life. What you desire within yourself is attainable, as long as you are willing to open yourself up to learn, and apply the things you learn into daily actions.
The change must be desired, wanted, and in a way where you are so passionate and committed that you will stop at nothing until you made it. Imagine taking all this time you spend comparing your life, trying to tell others how to live, distracting yourself with technology, building everything around you, and instead putting that attention directly towards your self improvement? Imagine doing this every single day consistently for the rest of your life? Think about how much growth you are capable of!!!
You have to want it though! Their has to be something within you that can no longer handle where you are, and how your life is going. You must feel tired of looking at yourself in the mirror feeling like you have more to give! You have to be done with not being able to recognize who you see. You need to stop giving so much to other people, and things and understand that it is selfish of you to not work on you! Do not be the rotten apple in your friend group, family, on your team. Feed yourself so that when you are around others, you can bring them light! You can inspire others with your growth, and gain the confidence you deserve to approach each day of your life as your best self. Appreciating lifes most precious gift… Evolution!
